Dailey has been in preschool for about three weeks. The first week she came home and she tells us a lot about her day which I LOVE. I have to really pull that kind of information out of Cole. Not sure if that's the difference between girls or boys or what.
But she came home telling us about a girl named Brighton. Dailey would say "Brighton, says sit by me, sit by me. " Everyday she came home and when we would ask who she sat by she would say Brighton wants me to sit by her. We were happy she had met a little friend.
Than a week or two later Dailey came home and said Brighton doesn't say sit by me anymore.
She asked another girl to sit by her.
So it begins.. Really this young?
I had to explain that is just fine if she wants someone else to sit by her, and that Dailey can be friends with everyone and she could be the one to ask someone if they would like to come and sit by her.
I also let her know it does not have to be a girl. She can be friends with everyone!
Friends are so important to have and I know there will be a time where I will worry and feel the heartache that comes from children experiencing all the things they go through in their childhood.
And though this wasn't a bad experience and the little girl isn't being mean to Dailey it's still a learning thing for me as a Mom as well as them!
Another experience we had this week Cole told me on our walk home from school. He said his friend Gustavo had put his arms around his head and hugged his head really hard and than another boy did it too. He said it hurt him. I asked if he told him to stop and he said yes. But they wouldn't. Than he said when they went in from recess the teacher gave him a warning for doing it.
So Cole and I talked about what to do if that happens again. I asked if he they were trying to be mean and he said he didn't know. It really wasn't anything big but I got worried if we had taught him all he needed to know and Dailey for that matter in what to do with these situations.
I really want my kids to remember that being
NICE is so
very important!
I also want them to know how to be
confident and stick up for themself too.